... my power is made perfect in weakness (2 Corinthians 12:9)
If you want others to see Christ in you, they need to see your weakness, not your strength. It is our need for Christ that draws others to Him—not our self-sufficiency. God extends His grace generously to those who choose to be humble (James 4:6). But sometimes God has to allow us to experience humbling circumstances to see our need for His grace and power.
The apostle Paul was given a special opportunity where he was taken up to paradise and heard ‘inexpressible things”.